Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.
oil on canvas
There has recently been a movement of girls and women of all ages that goes back to this passage of Scripture in Proverbs 31. It is the attitude that the worth of women are defined by so much more than their physical attributes, but by their hearts, their devotion to the Lord, and the fact that they are the Imago Dei. No matter how physically attractive any of us thinks we are, and no matter how much time and effort we spend trying to maintain that... It is all vanity because it will fade away, but our faith sustains us no matter what our age or physical appearance. That cannot be a back-burner priority for us. True beauty begins within the depths of the heart.
Take as many selfies as you want. But you can't take any of them with you in the afterlife.